The Question is:

Although we have posted on all of our ads and on our website "NO SINGLE MEN," we get this question all of the time, "How do I get invited to one of your parties?  A goup party is something I would like to try but find that it is very hard to get invited."

Our Answer is:

1. Post an ad online or on your lifestyle profile looking for a single women that would like to connect with you as a couple and go to events together.  A lot of lifestyle couples start out this way

2. Be honest with the couples you meet.  Once they get to know you they may invite you to join them for events.  Don't try to lie.  They have heard it all from single men and can tell if your the real deal.

3. In an intimate situation many women feel more comfortable having another woman involved.

4. The main reason that you do not see single men at a lot of couples parties is because they don't understand the basics when it comes to the lifestyle:

     *The respect for a man and a women's connection as a couple, they may invite you in as an added bit of fun to their sex life but you are not there because he is not "giving it to her good enough."

      *Quite often single men will make a pest of themselves, the couples you approach may not even be interested in a single man.

      *Many couples want to swap and are not into adding just a single man into the mix.

5. Single men are better off looking for couples looking a MFM experience.

6. Everything takes time.  Take it slow.  A few emails, a couple of meet and greats, and maybe a couple of drinks with a few couples.  Let people get to know you and feel comfortable with you.

Good luck in your search!